On Dawkins' chid abuse charge, you have to give the devil his due. Some religion is child abuse.
It is child abuse to teach a kid to strap on a suicide vest and blow himself and a bunch of innocent people up because they are infidels and it is child abuse to teach a kid that handling poisonous snakes is a sign of their faith.
John
--- On Fri, 11/7/08, Dehler, Bernie <bernie.dehler@intel.com> wrote:
> From: Dehler, Bernie <bernie.dehler@intel.com>
> Subject: RE: [asa] Dawkins is at it again
> To: "asa@calvin.edu" <asa@calvin.edu>
> Date: Friday, November 7, 2008, 6:59 PM
> Schwarzwald said: "The bottom line simply doesn't
> work."
>
> Then I guess we will agree to disagree.
>
> I understand Dawkins completely. I disagree with his
> conclusion, but I can see what he means by the 'child
> abuse' statement. If it turns out that there is no God,
> and all us Christian are deluded, then I agree with Dawkins
> that children and others have been unnecessarily damaged.
>
> ...Bernie
>
> ________________________________
> From: asa-owner@lists.calvin.edu
> [mailto:asa-owner@lists.calvin.edu] On Behalf Of Schwarzwald
> Sent: Friday, November 07, 2008 3:48 PM
> To: asa@calvin.edu
> Subject: Re: [asa] Dawkins is at it again
>
> The bottom line simply doesn't work. As I've
> pointed out, there are plenty of undeniable (by most atheist
> and christians alike) facts about the world that would be
> cruel/abusive to tell a child, especially depending on
> context. Further, if the cruelty depends on the truth of the
> matter, then raising a child with atheist beliefs is cruel
> if there is a God - and no one can say whether or not
> it's actually cruel, because none of us are privy to
> that certain and demonstrable knowledge on the question.
> This before noting the problems with right/wrong or
> cruel/kind under an atheism-as-true perspective.
>
> And keep in mind that many people who leave one faith or
> another don't do so entirely because of the faith
> itself. I'm sure some people may fit the bill, but there
> are many, many people who are bitter about christianity
> because of their experience with other christians
> (hypocrites, etc), with political stances, or otherwise.
> Mike's done a good job of pointing out where
> Dawkins' claim must go for it to be true, and why it
> fails.
> On Fri, Nov 7, 2008 at 11:50 AM, Dehler, Bernie
> <bernie.dehler@intel.com<mailto:bernie.dehler@intel.com>>
> wrote:
> There are a lot of people who leave Christianity and feel
> abused by it. Many are quite bitter about it... damaged
> goods. You can read their "falling away"
> testimonies here:
>
> http://exchristian.net/
>
> Bottom line- if there's no God- it is cruel to say
> there's a God who will send you to hell if you don't
> accept his imaginary son. On the other hand, if there is a
> God and the gospel is true, a person loses out on an
> abundant life in Christ if he rejects it.
>
> If someone yells "FIRE" in a movie house during
> your favorite movie, would you be upset? It all depends- on
> whether the fire is true or not. If true, you'll thank
> them. If false, you'll hate them for wrecking the
> movie. Same exact thing... only different.
>
> ...Bernie
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From:
> asa-owner@lists.calvin.edu<mailto:asa-owner@lists.calvin.edu>
> [mailto:asa-owner@lists.calvin.edu<mailto:asa-owner@lists.calvin.edu>]
> On Behalf Of Iain Strachan
> Sent: Friday, November 07, 2008 12:24 AM
> To: Nucacids
> Cc: asa@calvin.edu<mailto:asa@calvin.edu>
> Subject: Re: [asa] Dawkins is at it again
>
> Mike,
>
> Thanks for presenting this evidence. It confirms what
> I've known
> through empirical observation for a long time; which is why
> Dawkins's
> comments on child-abuse were the most offensive in the
> entire book as
> far as I'm concerned.
>
> In my voluntary work ( a telephone support line for the
> suicidal) I
> get to talk with appalling regularity with people who have
> been
> sexually abused as children. The damage it does is
> permanent - I do
> indeed get to see the lack of self-esteem, the feelings of
> guilt
> (victims often think it's their fault), the
> depression, the traumatic
> flashbacks when the victim re-lives the abuse vividly, and
> the
> suicidal thoughts.
>
> But on the other hand, I can count on the fingers of no
> hands the
> number of times when I've spoken to a person who was
> traumatized by
> being taught about hell.
>
> Dawkins's approach is shameful in this part of his book
> - as you say,
> it ignores the evidence, and, it seems to me, is
> deliberately using a
> highly emotive subject (child abuse) to make his point. I
> was quite
> disgusted by Dawkins's claims, so it's good to see
> real evidence that
> counters it. Dawkins is without excuse for his sloppy
> scholarship
> here.
>
> Regards,
> Iain.
>
>
> On Fri, Nov 7, 2008 at 1:15 AM, Nucacids
> <nucacids@wowway.com<mailto:nucacids@wowway.com>>
> wrote:
> > Hi Bernie,
> >
> >
> >
> > "If Dawkins was right, then he would have a very
> good point. If there was
> > no God heaven, or hell, then it could be mental
> torture on kids."
> >
> >
> >
> > This is incorrect. Real child abuse and mental
> torture bring about changes
> > in the brain and body that are detectable later on in
> life. For example, if
> > you meet or know someone who has a low self-esteem,
> who has poor social
> > skills, who battles depression, and who suffers from a
> variety of ailments
> > (migraines, skin problems, digestive problems, anxiety
> issues, etc.),
> > chances are good that this person was abused as a
> child. But don't take my
> > word for it, look to science:
> >
> >
> >
> > "Childhood maltreatment strongly predicts poor
> psychiatric and physical
> > health outcomes in adulthood. This overview of the
> literature shows that
> > individuals who suffer abuse, neglect, or serious
> family dysfunction as
> > children are more likely to be depressed, to
> experience other types of
> > psychiatric illness, to have more physical symptoms
> (both medically
> > explained and unexplained), and to engage in more
> health-risk behaviors than
> > their nonabused counterparts. (Arnow BA. 2004.
> Relationships between
> > childhood maltreatment, adult health and psychiatric
> outcomes, and medical
> > utilization. J Clin Psychiatry. 65 Suppl
> 12:10-5.)"
> >
> >
> >
> > There is no evidence that teaching children about hell
> results in these
> > adult outcomes. Dawkins, writing as the Professor for
> the Public
> > Understanding of Science, ignores the extensive
> scientific literature on
> > child abuse and its effects. What's more, there
> is also a large body of
> > scientific evidence that shows a religious upbringing
> is psychologically and
> > developmentally positive. An there are studies which
> show religious people
> > are less likely to engage in child abuse:
> >
> > "Religiosity and the socioemotional adjustment of
> adolescent mothers and
> > their children.Carothers SS, Borkowski JG, Lefever JB,
> Whitman TL.
> > J Fam Psychol. 2005 Jun;19(2):263-75.
> >
> > This study assessed the impact of religiosity on the
> socioemotional and
> > behavioral outcomes of 91 adolescent mothers and their
> offspring over 10
> > years. Religiosity was defined as involvement in
> church and contact with and
> > dependence on church officials and members. Mothers
> classified as high in
> > religious involvement had significantly higher
> self-esteem and lower
> > depression scores, exhibited less child abuse
> potential, and had higher
> > occupational and educational attainment than mothers
> classified as low in
> > religious involvement; differences remained when
> multiple factors, such as
> > stress and grandmother support, were held constant.
> Children with more
> > religious mothers had fewer internalizing and
> externalizing problems at 10
> > years of age, with maternal adjustment mediating this
> relationship.
> > Religiosity, through increased social support, served
> as a protective factor
> > for teenaged mothers and their children."
> >
> > Dawkins also ignores these data.
> >
> > Thus, there is a profound hypocrisy and intellectual
> dishonesty in Dawkins
> > message. On one hand, he claims science has disproven
> the existence of God,
> > yet there are no scientific studies that attempt to
> determine whether or not
> > God exists. On the other hand, there are plenty of
> scientific studies that
> > undercut his "religious upbringing as child
> abuse" message, and the
> > scientist ignores these.
> >
> > What he instead offers in his book is rhetoric and
> anecdote. He tells the
> > story about a letter he received from some unknown
> woman who got over her
> > sexual abuse, but is still tormented by hell beliefs.
> Of course, there is
> > no effort to substantiate this account; Dawkins trusts
> it on blind faith.
> > But even if the story is true, I'd bet this woman
> has many monsters in her
> > past and her mind has decided to "blame
> hell" as a defensive mechanism. It's
> > often easier to lash out at an idea than relive the
> hellish experience that
> > can come from *people.*
> >
> > Bottom line: Even if hell does not exist, there is no
> evidence that such
> > belief generates the effects typically associated with
> child abuse.
> > Furthermore, there is plenty of evidence that strong
> religiosity during
> > childhood has a positive effect on development.
> >
> > -Mike
> >
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: Dehler, Bernie
> > To: asa@calvin.edu<mailto:asa@calvin.edu>
> > Sent: Thursday, November 06, 2008 11:54 AM
> > Subject: RE: [asa] Dawkins is at it again
> >
> > If Dawkins was right, then he would have a very good
> point. If there was no
> > God heaven, or hell, then it could be mental torture
> on kids. However, if
> > Dawkins is wrong, then he'll burn in hell for
> it... likely... but that would be
> > God's call.
> >
> >
> >
> > ...Bernie
> >
> >
>
>
>
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