From: John W Burgeson (jwburgeson@juno.com)
Date: Sat Jul 19 2003 - 11:28:10 EDT
Sondra wrote, in part: "I strongly disagree and am sorry that you cannot
see it the way I do, which
I feel of course is the "right" way; I know you feel the same way, so we
will have to agree to disagree. In my mind it's a shame that somehow
you've
"missed" what I see, I will pray that you are enlightened and you do the
same for me, deal?"
Deal. That's part and parcel of what Christianity is all about, IMHO.
I assume you are 100% certain on your position. I cannot (ever) claim
such certainty. But I must take a position.
"I have to add that I do not see homosexuality as a reason to treat a
person
badly, in fact they need understanding, love and support, but like all
sin
it should not be accepted as a sanctioned behavior, ... ."
Once again, "homosexuality," being a condition, cannot be a sin. But I
understand you are speaking of "homosexual acts." I understand (and
applaud) your position as you stated it, particularly when you write "...
it's not my place to force my morals (or beliefs) onto another person.
But then you go on to say: "Where the church is concerned; I think the
church should not allow a homosexual couple to become members of the
church, but neither do I think
they should let an active alcoholic, drug addict, liar or adulterer,
etc... "
Oh my. Another place we must agree to disagree. I hope you'd allow them
to attend services! <G> Where would you draw the line here? I have known
church members who were bigots (use the "n" word frequently and with
relish. I have known members who were gossips. One (a friend and
neighbor) who went to jail for a shady financial dealing. I see the
church as a place where imperfect people can gather to find the grace of
God even in their imperfections.
Also -- what about a homosexual couple who refrain from sexual intimacy?
Yes, such do exist.
"I know I always break out in a story, but that is the best way I can
communicate most of my "meanings",... ."
I appreciate your stories. Stories are how we Christians really
communicate to one another. (I hope you've read mine (link on my web
site). My heart is on my sleeve there.) As far as I can see, you did the
right thing and the guy was a real dork. On behalf of males everywhere
(of all sexual orientation), I apologize for him. It must have been a
real lousy experience.
Peace.
John Burgeson (Burgy)
www.burgy.50megs.com
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