RE: Sin? Further thoughts

From: Debbie Mann (deborahjmann@insightbb.com)
Date: Sat Jul 05 2003 - 11:55:27 EDT

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    I think we sometimes lose track that the Romans 1 passage starts out with
    saying that because the people lost track of God, they had all the following
    symptoms and ends up with Romans 2:1 that says that we all do the same
    things and are all worthy of condemnation.
    JOHN 3
    17 For God sent not his Son into the world to CONDEMN the world; but that
    the world through him might be saved.

    and again,

    1 CORINTHIANS 6
    9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be
    not deceived: neither fornicators, nor IDOLATERS, nor adulterers, nor
    effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
    10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners,
    shall inherit the kingdom of God.
    11 And SUCH WERE some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but
    ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our
    God.

    It is not up to us to judge. If it is our decision, about ourselves - then
    the subject becomes a different one. I have my opinions on that one, but
    they are irrelevant to anyone else.

    1 JOHN 4
    6 We are of God: he that KNOWETH GOD heareth us; he that is not of God
    heareth not us. Hereby know we the spirit of truth, and the spirit of error.
    7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that
    loveth is born of God, and KNOWETH GOD.

    And that is the true test. It says it right in the verse.

    (And yes, I've quoted scripture, again. But, jiminy, isn't that our guide?)

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    Subject: Re: Sin? Further thoughts

    In a message dated 7/3/03 4:27:55 PM, jwburgeson@juno.com writes:

    What John Burgeson (Burgy) has written below is to put a face on the problem
    of homosexuality. We need that. It is too easy to argue abstractly and
    theologically that homosexuality is a sin without consideration of the
    persons involved. There is always the danger of placing homosexuals in a
    conceptual box, condemning the box, and forgetting that inside the box are
    real people who need to be treated as such.

    More important, John argues that homosexuality should be discussed in the
    context of a permanent, loving, committed relationship. I agree with him.
    Paul, in the first chapter of Romans, does not address that condition. John,
    I, and perhaps others who know, first hand, gays and Lesbians who are living
    in a loving and committed relationship, and we understand that Paul is not
    dealing with them. The homosexuals in committed relationships whom I have
    known simply do not do the things that Paul condemns as sin. They do not
    refuse to honor God as God or to give thanks to him, they do not boast in
    their own wisdom, they have not exchanged the glory of God for idols.
    Moreover, I have no reason to believe that God has given them up to every
    kind of wickedness described in verses 29-32 (NRSV and Oxford Study Bible).

    Paul's condemnation of homosexuality, as Burgy points out, is aimed at
    brazen, uncommitted homosexuality of the kind we all condemn, as do
    homosexuals I have known.

    I also think it is a mistake to overemphasize the role of homosexuality in
    the lives of gays and Lesbians who live in a committed relationship. Those
    who live that way whom I have known lead ordinary lives. They work at jobs,
    keep their households, worship and work at church, worry about making both
    ends meet just as we all do. Their lives are not centered on the bedroom
    any more than heterosexuals are. In so far as we think that homosexual acts
    are all that gays and Lesbians live for, we do them a grave injustice.

    I recommend that we stop arguing about the pros and cons of homosexuality in
    the abstract and outside of a committed relationship. We all agree that the
    latter is a sin, just as we all agree that heterosexual behavior outside of
    marriage relationship is sinful. The issue, as I see it, is whether
    homosexual persons living in a committed loving relationship, especially
    within a faith community, are living in sin. I also would argue that we
    should not extrapolate Paul's condemnation of blatant, uncommitted
    homosexuality to a loving committed homosexual relationship. That
    relationship, I would argue, takes it out of the purview of Romans chapter
    one, and places it closer to Gal. 3:28 where there is no longer Jew or
    Greek, slave or free, male or female, for all of us are one in Christ. I
    take that to mean that a committed relationship to Christ and each other are
    what count, not matters of gender, socio-economic status, or ethnic origins.

    But than, I'm no theologian, as is probably plain to see.

    In peace,

    Bob

    George wrote: "True. But then one has to ask the same question about
    some of the other things
    that Paul lists in this passage as consequences of the basic sin. Are
    covetousness, envy
    &c sometimes not sins?"

    Fair question. Let's see what I can do with it.

    The NIV is not the best translation, but I'll use it because most
    evangelicals seem to use it.

    "RO 1:18 The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the
    godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their
    wickedness,

    OK. Paul is referring specifically to persons who are "wicked" and
    "suppress the truth." Now the friends of mine I referred to in earlier
    posts do not appear to fit this description. In that "all persons sin," a
    good Presbyterian tenet, of course they do. But their lifestyles are,
    except for their domestic living arrangements, indistinguishable from you
    or I or the typical Christian. All are church members, two are studying
    for the ministry, one has completed his education and is an ordained
    minister in a fellowship which has welcomed him and his partner. His
    sermons (I have heard him three times) are faithful to the gospel.
    Knowing such persons -- worshipping with them -- dining and
    fellowshipping in their homes, I am quite unable to identify Romans 1:8
    as a description of them.

         RO 1:21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as
    God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their
    foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Although they claimed to be wise, they
    became fools 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images
    made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.

    These good people know God. They glorify Him, and give thanks to him.
    They do not claim to be wiser than others; they are just people;
    Christians who are trusting in Jesus for salvation as you and I.

        RO 1:24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their
    hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one
    another. 25 They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and
    served created things rather than the Creator--who is forever praised.
    Amen.

    Here, of course, is the tough verse. Is Paul referring to my good friends
    I have described above? If he is, then I must accept that scripture, and
    reject and condemn my friends.

    I think Paul has in mind the type of homosexual acts he knew about in his
    day -- ritual temple acts of male & female prostitution. Such are
    properly condemned, and fit the passage. Sex, same or different gender,
    outside a committed relationship is clearly proscribed by many
    scriptures.

        RO 1:26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even
    their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27 In the
    same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were
    inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with
    other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their
    perversion.

    That verse suggests that persons who do not conform to sex within a
    committed relationship are "given up on," and so continue in their sins,
    perhaps adding to them.

        RO 1:28 Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain
    the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what
    ought not to be done. 29 They have become filled with every kind of
    wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder,
    strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30 slanderers, God-haters,
    insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they
    disobey their parents; 31 they are senseless, faithless, heartless,
    ruthless. 32 Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do
    such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things
    but also approve of those who practice them.

    You asked about the same question about some of the other things that
    Paul lists in this passage as consequences of the basic sin. Are
    covetousness, envy &c sometimes not sins?

    All of the things described above seem to me to always be sin. And my
    friends do not in any way fit the description -- at least not in any way
    different than the typical Christian. Nor do they approve of those who
    practice them.

    In summary, my friends who are in same-gender domestic relationships, do
    not fit the pattern of Romans 1. I cannot find a way to apply that
    section of scripture to them. I have met -- perhaps -- 40 or 50 such
    persons in the past three years -- a number of them in a choral group
    called "The Gay Men's Choir." I have been casual friends with about a
    dozen, and close friends with three. We have prayed together; worshipped
    together. They have the Holy Spirit working in and through them as much
    as many "straight" Christians I have met.

    In a past life friend wife and I were active in the 60s Civil Rights
    movement. We've gotten the hate mail, threatening our children if we did
    not desist. Partly as a result of that we wound up with a mixed race
    family, and now a mixed culture family as son #4 was married last month
    to a Vietnamese lady. I see the struggle for gay rights as a natural
    continuation of that activity, and that is why I write.

    Peace

    John Burgeson (Burgy)

    www.burgy.50megs.com



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