Accurate Understanding and Respectful Attitudes
      Students in my high school learned valuable lessons about understanding and attitudes from one of our favorite teachers.  He was skilled in explaining ideas (using direct instruction), and he also held debates in his civics class.  On Monday he would convince us that "his side of the issue" was correct, but on Tuesday he made the other side look just as good.  After awhile we learned that, in order to get accurate understanding, we should get the best information and arguments that all sides of an issue can claim as support.  After we did this and we understood more accurately and thoroughly, we usually recognized that even when we have valid reasons for preferring one position, people on other sides of an issue may also have good reasons, both intellectual and ethical, for believing as they do, so we learned respectful attitudes.
      But respect does not require agreement.  You can respect someone and their views, yet criticize their views, which you have evaluated based on evidence, logic, and values.  The intention of our teacher, and the conclusion of his students, was not a postmodern relativism.  The goal was a rational exploration and evaluation of ideas in a search for truth, and for practical principles that (when combined with good values) are a useful foundation for thinking that leads to wise-and-effective strategies, policies, decisions, and actions.

      In our schools, we can encourage accurate understanding and respectful attitudes by avoiding "Monday without Tuesday (and Wednesday,...)" indoctrination, by accurately and respectfully describing the main views on each topic.  Each description may not be perceived by everyone as being NEUTRAL, due to both perception (because many people prefer a treatment that is biased in favor of their own views, and they consider a treatment to be neutral only if it is biased in this way) and reality (because it is impossible to describe any view in a way that is totally neutral).  But teachers can try to be FAIR by aiming for accurate descriptions, treating different perspectives with respect, and by providing access to high-quality resources where opposing advocates clearly express their own views and criticize other views.
      Teachers who do this can help make the process of agreeing-and-disagreeing more enjoyable and productive.  They can use productive communication — in an effort to achieve understanding and mutual respect — in a search for knowledge that is true and useful.
 


 
This page — written by Craig Rusbult, Ph.D. — is http://www.asa3.org/ASA/education/teach/uar.htm